Soooo Sick of Abby

What is it with this wimpy low energy woman?! Blowing off the picnic w/Chad when she has the opportunity to heal the marriage? I don't care what reason. This Abby has no backbone, her acceptance of Gabi is lame and I don't accept the "alters returning" as an excuse. She is becoming impossible to watch, and for a major character losing all respect for this viewer.