"A leopard can’t change their spots" is true…Sami will never change. She is still doing the same really stupid things that she was doing years ago. She may cry and wail "it’s not fair"…but she will continue to make the same errors and mistakes in her life…- "Insanity is doing the same thing, over and over again, but expecting different results." Albert Einstein. Sami just isn’t a smart, mature enough woman who learns from her past and past mistakes at all.