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I enjoyed this so much. They actually cleared the air a bit and got their feelings out. I was so relieved when they didn’t just end up in bed again and kept the conversation going. This kind of interaction is what is keeping this couple going for me.
On the other hand, the conversation with Jennifer and JJ the other day was painful for me to watch. Every time someone tries to talk to her she’s constantly cutting them off and telling them to stop, she doesn’t want to hear it. It drives me nuts! Then she runs off and tells everyone in town what a great conversation they had. Did I miss something?
Their yelling and screaming was way too much and I can’t believe any couple would act that way. As many fights as I’ve had with dear ol’ hubby, never once did we get even near the decibels they reached. I was afraid a couple of times one of them would burst a blood vessel.
Bonbon, you must have a good hubby. We don’t argument much. Usually my hubby just stops talking or gets very sarcastic.
When people keep feelings bottles up inside for too long, one little thing can be the tipping point of bringing up all the things that are bothering them. Once the dam is open, everything comes out, all the hurt and emotion which leads to yelling. At least it helps to clear the air. I much prefer it to the silent treatment–that just annoys me to no end!
I think both of them have a lot of guilt about keeping secrets from each other. (For some reason, all soapers value honesty and then keep secrets). Personally, I don’t think that a person needs to tell the partner every little thing. But these two keep very big things from each other.
in a Latin or Italian houeshold.
Kidding…. But my parents are Latin and Italian and we’re that loud on a good day. Seriously though – I don’t think that their screaming/loudness was (a) out of charachter for them and (b) concernin for a couple dealing with major issues. Sometimes you just have to let it out. the best and most truth-revealing I have ever seen them have since they were finally made a legitimate couple. The yelling and loud screaming by both actors was very believable to me, considering everything they are concealing about one another — and isn’t that why they are both so guilty — because the one truth that neither Sami nor E.J. could accept about one another has always been their trust issues. Now that they both have an unscrupulous secret that they are hiding from each other, they are trying to blame those trust issues on the lies they are telling (or not telling) one another to cover up the fact that they are, in fact, not being truthful, and the merry-go-round that is controlling their lives continues. If, in fact, they are ever going to make it, this is the way I see it happening —- pack up the lies, the secrets, the trust issues and stop blaming the other for things you are doing yourself. If not, this relationship is doomed and I don’t want to see that happen. I thought, despite the very loud, very angry tone they both exhibited, I thought it was probably the most truthful they have ever been to one another as to WHY they have the issues they do have. It was very well done, IMO.
I thought the fight was over the top but then again what isn’t with these two? The bottom line is they both lie and keep major secrets. They don’t trust each other, period. By the way they are right not to trust each other. I won’t bother recounting their transgressions against one another suffice to say any one of the many offenses would have driven a normal person away forever. But we are not talking about normal people, we are talking about two narcisstic psychopaths who are getting exactly what they deserve by continuing to torture each other.
about what happened with Nick. It doesn’t[‘t affect EJ. It certainly couldn’t shock him with what he’s done in the past. In fact, it seems to me to be able to have someone to console you would be worth it. Besides, what would EJ do, turn her over to the police? Uh-uh. Would he think poorly of her? Uh-uh, not that either. Tell him, Sami, tell him.
she isn’t telling him other than she is trying to even the score with him for not telling her what he knew about Kristen and Brady. I think she should tell him, too. He might be able to help her figure out what to do when she either gets found out or Nick returns. And, we all know it’s likely that one of those things will happen!
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