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Of course Theresa will be scheming again but nice to see her little plan so far isn’t woring.
I do disagree though about Brady’s attitude that Tate never see his parents together. No matter if mom and dad hate each other they should always be civil in front of the child and not let any of their ugly stuff, especially about each other seep out. I find that both juvenile and of bad character.but I have to give Brady kudos today for letting Theresa know he’s on to her sh*t and what she did to Melanie, plus the up-front realization that not only does he have no romantic interest in her, but that he also has no intention of letting her back into his personal business ever again. Just hope he’s up to the task, because at some point we know she’ll try.
like he says, kids pick up on it when there is adversity between parents so it would be better Tate never see that than having the benefit of seeing his parents together. That’s why they say never put off a divorce because of the kids because the kids know what’s going on anyway.
The custody trial was rigged because the judge ended up being a friend of my dad’s father. After weekend visits with my mom, my father would ask me 20 questions with the most wonderful one being "who do you love the most?" There’s more, but I’m not going to vent on this board. IRL when I hear someone is getting divorced, the first thing I ask is if they are being civil for the sake of the kids. BTW, I never heard my mom say anything bad about my father.
I think it is also smart of Brday to email because there is a record of what is said. It is very difficult for a child to be caught in the middle. My grandson goes through that all the time because his father causes conflick all the time. My daughter now uses email so there is a record of what is discussed.
His dad and dad’s parents quiz him all the time and talk trash about his mom. They called child protective services and complained her house is dirty and dangerous. However, we never trash talk about them cause we don’t want our grandson to feel bad.
I know some people who can make it work, which makes it real easy for kids. MY grandson has a lot of issues that he doesn’t talk about.
My son and his wife have been divorced for 15 years now and their twin daughters are happy, well adjusted 24-year olds. The parents agreed (although the divorce wasn’t not the friendliest) to never say anything bad about the other one and to make sure the girls knew they were equally loved by both.
Then, when my son remarried, his wife said since she couldn’t have kids of her own she was going to be the best damned stepmother in the world. And she has. Many mothers don’t treat their flesh and blood as well as she does.
So, if you have two civil, common sense adults, it doesn’t have to adversely affect the kids. Actually, I can say the same about my own divorce. In fact, we have remained very good friends, have spent many holidays together and even spent time in each other’s homes while on vacation. It didn’t start out that way but we both realized we had to put our bitterness aside for the kids sake and eventually the bitterness disappeared completely. People need to remember that once there was love there and they can build that back up if they choose. It’s not the same love as before but I will always love him as the father of my children and because he is a good person. I am even good friends with his wife. Can I see Brady ever doing that with Devil-Woman? No way, Jose!!!!
My point is there is no excuse for parents to not suck it up in front of their kids. The parents’ issues have nothing to do with the offspring and there should be a monumental attempt to maintain that atmosphere.
As for Days, I dearly hope Brady will not be taken in again by Mommy Dearest even though she will use everything in her arsenal.But it will onl work if BOTH people will cooperate and not play games. In my daughter’s situation there is constant harassment which makes it very hard to be civil. In that case it is best to avoid him when ever possible.
they should suck it up for their kids. But in this case, Theresa is such a nasty little loser that I think Brady was right to set up the guidelines he did. She will always be trying to use Tater-Tot to get him back or hurt someone he cares for.
After he overheard Theresa’s conversation with Ann, what now? Seems like he is willing to melt and let her work her spell on him. Oh groan. Why couldn’t he have overheard other conversations. Guess we just have to wait to see how it all plays out. Any bets on how long before she moves in and how long before he make a move on her?
it is Soooo tiresome. How long can Brady be made a fool unless Theresa truly turns around? We know she will use Tate but we saw this with Chloe and Daniel.
So much depends on the take of the new writing team.her trying to exude some hidden motherly lovin’ instinct toward that baby (Tater-Tot…love it), just makes me cringe. Wasn’t she just telling him on the plane home from Italy how it would only be a matter of time before they would have their OWN jet because his daddy’s so rich, yadda, yadda, yadda. Sure, Brady overheard the fear in her voice, because she doesn’t have the instinct to raise a puppy let alone a baby, but she’ll continue to use that whether it appears her "mother love" is genuinely for the child and not the child’s inheritance, but she’ll never prove it to me unless she would be willing to die for Tate (hint-hint writers). I don’t know who makes my skin crawl more, Theresa or Eve, but if I had to put money on them in a race to hell in a hand basket, I’d say they reach their destination in what’s commonly known as a "photo finish!"
And by the way, you go Paige, saving all that revenge drama for your worthless momma as well as JJ. I was cheering Paige on today. I like the fierce, feisty hatred she’s exhibiting to Eve and to JJ, even though I’m sure she’s dying inside. I hope she never gives them the satisfaction of seeing how much she is truly hurting, although I loved her calling her mother "Eve" today just to prove her point. This witch and her boy toy and what they are suffering through right now is another example of my definition of having my cake and eating it too. I’m just loving Paige right now.
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