yes you are right, Patti. I do not like the character of EJ DiMera at all. I never bought the "love story" of EJ and Sami. I actually liked him much better with Nicole. I felt they were a better match.
I just feel the EJ did terrible things to the women he loved. Starting with his treatment of Sami. to kicking Nicole and Sydney out when he thought she wasn’t his child, to pretending she was killed, to his affair.