justwondering

 I know that Abigail is no angel and that she has a history of going after unavailable men. I am not trying to pin a medal on her or call her a angel. (There are no angels on DOOL) But she IS young, dumb and naive. She is a babe in the woods compared to EJ.

Yes, it takes two to tangle but if one says no that it is a no go. Since EJ is more mature and worldly and so in love with Sami, I would think he would have more self control.  As dopey as Austin was, he resisted Abby’s charms.

If as TFLo insinuates that EJ bedded her to keep her from butting her nose into Gabi’s business, then EJ is even worse. Then it wasn’t a loss of control, it was a calculated move.

Thanks for your compliement about my posts, believe me I get it– you love EJ and Sami together as a super couple. But they can’t be too super if there is not trust, whether or not they are having trouble.

I enjoy reading your posts and your insights and you are entitled to your opinion. I think that I have been on here long enough to be entitled to mind. I am simply pointing out another point of view.

I wasn’t trying to offend anyone.

 

 I am not trying to "blow it out of proportion" at all.  Manipulating a young woman IS a big deal. 

Everyone can make a mistake, but to do this to decieve (it was lovely, smooch, smooch) is disgusting!!

Whether you hate Abby or not has nothing to do with my comments. In case YOU didn’t realize, I really detest EJ, and I always have.   Right from the beginning  when he moved in across the hall from Sami and began his quest to bed Sami because his father wanted him to. I won’t BORE you with other incidents when EJ’s true colors have continued to come to the surface  (hint hint trying to freeze Lucas, kidnapping Sidney and pretending she was dead, etc,etc.)   Every action in his life is the definition of a sociopath.

As for me, I, too, hope Sami finds out. However, I hope with all my heart, that she is smart enough to put the blame where it belongs

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on EJ!  If she can find it in her heart to FORGIVE this latest betrayal of her love, then they truly deserve each other.

As for Abigail, she is young, dumb and impressionable. Hopefully, she will grow up and mature.

By the way—-if you knew the definiton of a sociopath and can’t recognize it describes EJ to a tee, then you are not as smart as you think!  Only kidding – NOT  

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and have a nice day!!!!

 

 

 Wow, lots of hate for Abby. A young naive girl with limited experience. What about EJ? A sophisticated, man of the world.

Where is his culpability? Before you tell me, she became the aggressor, he is older and should be in control!! I don’t buy the "well, he has got any from Sami for a long time". Is he an animal?  Also, afterward, he engages in pillow talk— "it was lovely", the very things are young girl would want to hear from a powerful man like EJ. Than they engage again!! 

Yes, Abby will become  delusional and obsessed, but IMO this is on EJ.

As far as being a sociopath- this – a person with a psychopathic personality whose behavior is antisocial, often criminal, and who lacks a sense of moral

 responsibility or social conscience.

this is a definiton of EJ not Abigail. 

 Actually, I think that TPTB have been hinting at this for some time. The converstaions between EJ and Abgail discussing her father’s book, "running" into each other and talking. Her remarks about EJ being the bad boy. We already know that Abigail goes gaga over "older" and unavailable men (Austin).

But I thought it was funny that she hasid that she is a woman and if she didn’t want it to happen, it wouldn’t have. SO TRUE! I remember all those times she teased Cameron, only to change her mind. They made such a big deal about her being a virgin. I guess she didn’t learn anything from her encounter with Chad.

Although, I loved the line " I have been with 2 men and they are brothers and DiMeras!!

However, I blame EJ. He is older, more worldly and supposedly in love with "Samantha". I don’t care if they are fighting, you don’t make up with someone by sleeping with someone else.

 I thought EJ was the smart one, cunning and imaginative. This is the best he can come up with? 

THere are so many other things that would make more sense. But then again, why is Abby so determined to tell? I really didn’t think she cared that much for Nick.